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It’s all about focus…

“The most successful people I know are not busy. They’re focused.” Jeff Goins

I meet a lot of people who tell me they like to work hard and play hard. I always ask them this question “What makes them feel this is so important?”

Telling people you’re too busy because you are working hard isn’t a badge of honour!

It is however the trap that many of us fall into, the belief that hard work is the only way forward. In fact many organisations almost insist on it

Yet if we are always working flat out with a full on schedule, how can we  take time to be Conscious about what is actually happening around us and Conn3ct with it in the now?

How we spend our days is how we spend our life and I choose to be focused rather than busy

When we are busy, it can feel like we are on autopilot

When we are focused, our mind can see the bigger picture and create new ways to make tangible progress toward our goals, this is when the magic happens

Working hard often doesn’t get you a pay rise or respect from colleagues, and being at a company the longest or doing overtime won’t automatically get you that promotion either

Tangible progress often will

So it’s your choice: work hard or focus?

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If only life came with a map…

When we don’t know, we don’t know

We don’t know, we don’t know

Because we don’t know!

This is when we are unconscious of our incompetence, in other words we don’t know what we are doing or being or where we are going we are operating on auto pilot

And when we know, we know

We know

This is when we are conscious of our competence, in other words we know what we are doing or being and where we are going

We always know which direction is right way for us at any time, in any situation and  for any given decision, the hard part is acknowledging that we know and adapting our course accordingly. This is our Spiritual intelligence or SQ in action. It is often referred to as our Gut or our Instinct

Many of us have experienced this in our lifetimes, its the the times when our Gut (SQ – Wisdom) said “not this way” and yet the Logical (IQ – Head) part of us said “yes this way”. Since society encourages us to follow the logic we end up in a cul de sac; and of course it also happens the other way around, Gut says “yes this turn” and Logic says “not this turn” so if we still follow the logic the result is a missed junction

The myth is that the brain (IQ) is in charge, we are often told to think things through, or make a list of pros and cons for a decision, Logic.

Our Gut (SQ) provides us with information that sometimes is at odds with Logic it is called Intuition.

So do you follow the Logic (IQ) or Intuition (SQ)?

We already know the answer

As Steve Harvey said

“You can’t drive a car looking in the rear view mirror”

Imagine having inner Satellite Navigation that will always provide us with the best route through every  situation or decision both at home or at work

Imagine what we could achieve if we always made the best decisions for ourselves based on that inner Knowing

Conscious Conn3ctions is a fast, simple and fun way to Conn3ct to your inner Satelite Navigation and find your best route through life

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